Sharing the music that holds our stories

Music To Die For gathers stories of love, loss and joy, creating a space to explore how music supports us with grief. 



Music helps organise our lives, brings meaning to our hardest moments and helps us honour the connections that shape who we are. Through the stories we tell and the music we share, we celebrate the profound role soundtracks play in carrying our lives forward, even when facing the most difficult endings.


Music To Die For invites you to do just one thing:

Tell us about a piece of music and how it connects you to someone you’ve lost.

Latest shared stories

Please be aware these stories contain themes of hope, joy and love, alongside illness, tragedy and end of life. You can find help and hope at The Good Grief Trust and Hub of Hope

“Music is the shorthand for emotion.”

Leo Tolstoy

Hazel & Phillipa

Founded by Dr Hazel Harrison and Phillipa Anders, Music To Die For was created from a shared passion for the way music shapes our lives. In 2024, they were awarded a Creative Health Residency by Britten Pears Arts to explore how music connects us to people, memories and emotions that words alone cannot express.

Tell your story in four parts

If you need some help getting started, feel free to use these prompts to help shape your story. You don’t have to answer every question, just follow the ones that resonate most with you.